The following hookup may happen in your apartment, in a public restroom, or in the alley out back. Now all you have to do is work up the courage to talk to him, give him your number, or nod to the exit. If you make eye contact with him and discover (wordlessly and without complete certainty) that you are both interested, then voila! You’ve cruised. In our minds, we lift his shirt the rest of the way and tug on the brim of his trousers with our teeth. We do it on the subway and in the office and anywhere a handsome gentleman might lift his shirt to wipe sweat off his forehead. This is a fair definition, but some guys would define cruising more loosely: a basic sex hunt, not something you specifically set out to do but rather something you are always doing. Wikipedia defines “cruising” as “walking or driving about a locality in search of a sex partner, usually of the anonymous, casual, one-time variety.”
